We were having an interesting discussion in the office someday last week. Shahnaz was giving Vince some coaching on how to go after hard-to-get girls.
According to one of Shahnaz's theory, the harder she resist, the bigger the breakthrough will be. The key is no matter how hard the girl resist you, as long as she allows you to keep staying around her, just be persistent and hang on, you will have a chance to reach a breaking point and see her fall head over heels for you afterward. If she won't give you a chance at all, she won't let you be around her, she will run away from you as far as she could and flee for her life.
Need any proof? Don't you see so many fat ugly man out there who have a gorgeous and faithful girlfriend? They know this trick...
Well, personally I don't know how well it works on getting girls, but I see its application in reaching out to our unchurched friends.
I believe we all has friends who has a problem believing in God, and yet always likes to ask us questions about God and Christianity. They don't mind following us to Lifegroup meetings and church service or events occasionally, but they insist that it's just for the fun of it, not that they are ready to believe in God.
I think that theory applies here, the more they resist, the bigger the breakthrough will be. As long as they don't run away from us, one day we will see their heart touched by God and they will be so head over heels for God.
I still remember how much I resisted when Joescher first invited me to church, how I get irritated when he talked about Christianity, and how eager I wanted to change channel when I heard worship songs in his car. And yet I stayed around him till one day God touched my life and the rest is history.
So just have faith and keep reaching out to those who have been following you to church for a long time and yet to believe in God, as long as they stay around, you never know one day they could become the strongest disciples that you've even seen. Just look around you, you don't need more proof...